... And then , one day one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life ... You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.